My daughter

[mama16]

Hi,
I'm new to this site.  My daughter is 16, and is severely uneven, like "A" on the left "C" on the right.  She is perfectly normal and healthy, happy, active in school and the community, color guard, theater, gets great grades, well adjusted, and anyone would be happy to have her as a child.  The only thing that bothers her, and she is terribly unhappy about is her breasts.  She kept it a secret even from me for as long as she could.
I did some research and apparently this is "normal", and she will catch up by the time she's 21.  I took her to a gyn, she wanted a female, who proved to want to do little more than promote that HPV vaccine, and recommend a surgeon. 
I am curious if anyone here knows or thinks that the pill will work, or help.  Is there something more I should be looking for?  I have finally convinced her she needs to see my guy, who is the BEST gyn ever, but am wondering if I should maybe take her to a growth specialist or something. 
She has been removing the padding from one side of the bra and filling the other.  I am a very large breasted woman, and I grew almost completely overnight by the time I was 14, so I understand the trauma breast size can cause.  I became very good at hiding my size very early on.  I'm uneven also, but the size alone makes it nearly indiscernable.
Should we just wait it out? - There is NO WAY I will get her an implant at this age, I'm not even sure if they come in singles.  Any advice is welcome.  How normal is this?  The girl reads every single teen mag there is and NOT ONE ever mentions this.  IS it really that taboo? 
I appreciate the help.
Thanks

[greeny]

Don't tell her that they will catch up. It creates false hope.

My Dad once said to me (in relation to my worries) 'As long as it has a nipple and moves a bit a man doesn't care.' And believe it or not that has helped me a lot when I am feeling bad about them.

It's an imperfection. Don't make her feel as if she needs surgery.

http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery_1.php

Have her look at these. They are normal people's breasts and there are some that are quite asymmetrical. It's heartening to see other people who have the same issue.

[kahli27]

Hello, i am 19 and my breast are dd on the left and b on the right, i have struggled with this since i started developing and have been on the pill on and off since i was 16, it hasnt helped my left is still growing and i dont believe they will even up i never told my mum i just hid it. I now live with a wonderful partner who respects my issues with my breasts and im happy that he can see were i come from.
I have been to gynos also and they have just told me to stick it out i am now concidering going back and asking if any hormone treatments will work but doubt they will have much luck with such a large difference.
I personally use a fillet in my smaller side however its still noticable i am now concidering once im fully developed getting a specialized bra fitted but this may prove expensive so i am not worrying untill i can use it more long term.
my mother has small breasts so im not sure that genes plays much into it however if she finds a good solution now it may prove useful for her child if the need arise.
I would wait untill she is FULLY developed before looking into any long term solution such as surgery. It should really be a last resort, definatly dont make her feel its necasary!

Hope this helps you and your daughter

[KrystalKlear]

Hello! I'm Krystal! I'm 13 years old and I have uneven breasts. My left breast is a size a and my right is a size DD. For me it's really embarrising. I get made fun of in school alot. Most boys say to me "Oh your boob is falling!" and then they just laugh. It horrbile. Sometimes I get depressed or worse like thoughts of suicide. I'm glad that i know I'm not the only one wth this problem. But i just wsh I had normal breasts and hope this bullying could stop. Everyday I tell myslef uneven is better becuase you're filled wth more love,kindness,energy, and happiness. Just by saying this to myslef everyday makes me happier. 

[babygurl503]

im going threw the same exact issue. it suckkkks more than anything. ive had the same group of friends for years now and i still cant shower with them im soo embarased

[Lee123]

I started noticing that my breasts were uneven when I was 9.. I had little breasts but they were still uneven.. like size b and a. As I got older I felt soo ashamed of my body and embarrassed to tell my mother. When I was 11 I hit puberty and my breasts began to grow even more uneven. When I was 16 I got the nerve to tell my mother about my dilema and about that time my breasts were D and A. My mom took me to the doctor... the doctor told me... "OH, it's normal for girls to have uneven breasts.. and by the time you're in your 20's you'll see that you have evened out" I was thinking Nooooo not like mine.. I knew I was never going to even out. In fact by the time I was 21... right before I got pregnant.. my left boob got even bigger... It was DD and the smaller one was a almost b.. It's such an embarrassing thing..

I never could get intimate with my boyfriends... not the way I saw it and imagined it. I constantly feared they would think I was damaged goods. After I had my daughter my breasts got even bigger... the left boob was now almost a DDD and my right was a b, they began to sag as well.

I'm so glad I found this group... because I have always felt alone with this. I hope to hear about people that got surgeries or people that are proud of there uneven assets..

I hope your daughter finds help... but not until she's fully developed for sure...

[lisam]

Her breast will never even out unless she has surgery & I wish doctors would stop giving false hope!

I was told when I was 16 that my breasts (left AA & right C) would even out when I stop developing, 21 according to the doctor. That didn't happen, he then told me it will right itself when I have kids. I couldn't live with it and had a breast implant in my left er breast.

I am now 47 , have had kids and my right breast has just got bigger (DD) while my left has stayed the same.

I worry that my daughter (9) will develop as I did so I'm constantly checking her breasts and if it does happen to her then I would let her have the surgery as soon as it was possible. The only thing I would suggest is a breast reduction on the bigger breast (& then maybe implants) so later in life her breasts will always be fairly even.

[hellokitty]

Hello, my name is Kayla and i'm 19.
My right breast is 40 D, and my left is a small A, and I've noticed a difference when I was around 13.
I knew it was normal to have uneven breasts, but i began to think something was seriously wrong with me once my right breast really began to grow when i was 16, and the left one didnt.
I never told anyone about it, because it makes me feel very insecure. To this day, my mother does not even know.
I have a wonderful boyfriend of 9 months, and i have never even taken my shirt off around him, or let him touch my breasts..
Its a very huge problem for me, and the only thing that would make me feel better is surgery, though i cant afford it.
I was also told that one they would even out, but it's only gotten worse.

I wouldn't advise telling your daughter or let other people tell her that they will eventually even out, because they don't always.
It's something to either live with, or to correct.
But I wish the best of luck to the both of you!